In a heart-wrenching tribute, Dr. Alex Otti, OFR, bids a tearful goodbye to his dear friend and brother, Herbert Wigwe. The poignant words capture the shock and disbelief that shrouds the sudden departure of Herbert, the renowned banker and visionary leader.
“Why, Herbert? Why?” echoes the grief-stricken question that resounds in Dr. Otti’s mind as he grapples with the unexpected news of Herbert’s passing. The initial plans of a routine board meeting in London and a subsequent visit to the US took a tragic turn, leaving Dr. Otti in a state of disbelief.
The unfolding of the sad news has left Dr. Otti unable to find solace. Conversations with friends and colleagues, including Peggy, confirmed the devastating reality. The call from Sola Faleye, a younger friend and a key figure in Herbert’s professional journey, further solidified the heartbreaking truth. Sola, who had been with Herbert since the Diamond Bank days, was unreachable, having chosen to travel by road instead of the ill-fated chopper.
In the midst of the grief, Dr. Otti contemplates the difficult task of breaking the news to Herbert’s family, including Tochi and the little ones. The weight of informing Mummy Stella and Daddy Shyngle, whose 60th wedding anniversary Herbert celebrated just two years ago, adds to the overwhelming sorrow.
The tribute delves into the dreams and aspirations shared between Dr. Otti and Herbert, including the ambitious project of establishing Wigwe University. The dream of creating a scholarship scheme to support brilliant but indigent students now hangs in the balance, casting a shadow over the vision they once nurtured together.
Herbert Wigwe’s profound impact on Dr. Otti’s life is evident throughout the tribute. The camaraderie, encouragement, and unwavering support are remembered with deep appreciation. Herbert’s unconventional perspectives, can-do spirit, and his ability to defy conventional wisdom in the world of mergers and acquisitions are highlighted as attributes that left an indelible mark.
Recalling a pivotal moment when Herbert challenged Dr. Otti to remain in Abia and contribute to public service instead of venturing into a new banking project, the tribute reflects the consistent support and friendship that endured over the years.
The final farewell to Herbert, and also to Chizoba and Chizzy, who were also on the ill-fated chopper, is filled with deep sadness and an overwhelming sense of loss. Dr. Otti expresses the wish that the tragic news is just a bad dream, a sentiment shared by many who knew Herbert.
As Dr. Alex Otti, OFR, bids his brother Herbert a good night, the sentiment resonates with the pain of saying goodbye to a friend, a mentor, and a visionary leader whose presence will be deeply missed.
